Stick to what you are writing. It is sensational. Mummy blogger you are not. The idiot who emailed you doesn't get that you have a real career in a serious profession and a great family. That alone makes your writing special.
He is probably 57, still lives with his mummy, and works in the food delivery industry.
A little thinking would have led idiot email guy to the reasonable conclusion that , hey, maybe Beth had some real work to do last week, and didn't have time for an a filth laden magnum opus every day.
Those of us read your articles in both forums probably figured you might get around to a post about your anal experiences sooner or later. We should have known that you would shoot the lights out :).
Mismatched libidos and a lack of interest in sex and other forms of intimacy, whatever their cause, are the bane of a married life where everything else is near perfect. I can sense that sadness within you as these words were being committed to print. Please accept my condolences. I have had to deal with similar feelings for some time. It is horrible at times - it probably feels like rejection, even when it is not.
That being said, I haven't seen or heard of anyone who has worked around it as well as you. Most of the guys I know who tried got busted, then divorced. At least you have a pass and can use that as cover. It should also assuage your conscience somewhat.
I think it is also easier for an attractive woman with your time management skills and approach to keep up a male harem that doesn't take up too much time, and that doesn't either eventually break the bank, or lead to some awkward questions at home about money. Women are, understandably, much more demanding when on call for such fun, and expect much more of a gentleman than to simply split a day rate hotel expense.
Small mercies, I know, when you need tending. Hope the week is good to you.
I had a bit of a mentor on how to handle this kind of situation that I find myself in, which really helped. And my mom has been an emotional rock my whole life, but really, since Jamie's accident, she's been there to discuss some pretty weird and potentially uncomfortable things.
What my mentor taught me was to be equal with the men I'm seeing. I'm not trading favors with them, I'm having fun with them for an hour or two.
Demanding that they pay for the whole room or buy me gifts turns me into a prostitute, takes away my power, and makes me less than them.
Beth,
Stick to what you are writing. It is sensational. Mummy blogger you are not. The idiot who emailed you doesn't get that you have a real career in a serious profession and a great family. That alone makes your writing special.
He is probably 57, still lives with his mummy, and works in the food delivery industry.
A little thinking would have led idiot email guy to the reasonable conclusion that , hey, maybe Beth had some real work to do last week, and didn't have time for an a filth laden magnum opus every day.
Those of us read your articles in both forums probably figured you might get around to a post about your anal experiences sooner or later. We should have known that you would shoot the lights out :).
Mismatched libidos and a lack of interest in sex and other forms of intimacy, whatever their cause, are the bane of a married life where everything else is near perfect. I can sense that sadness within you as these words were being committed to print. Please accept my condolences. I have had to deal with similar feelings for some time. It is horrible at times - it probably feels like rejection, even when it is not.
That being said, I haven't seen or heard of anyone who has worked around it as well as you. Most of the guys I know who tried got busted, then divorced. At least you have a pass and can use that as cover. It should also assuage your conscience somewhat.
I think it is also easier for an attractive woman with your time management skills and approach to keep up a male harem that doesn't take up too much time, and that doesn't either eventually break the bank, or lead to some awkward questions at home about money. Women are, understandably, much more demanding when on call for such fun, and expect much more of a gentleman than to simply split a day rate hotel expense.
Small mercies, I know, when you need tending. Hope the week is good to you.
That's very kind of you.
I had a bit of a mentor on how to handle this kind of situation that I find myself in, which really helped. And my mom has been an emotional rock my whole life, but really, since Jamie's accident, she's been there to discuss some pretty weird and potentially uncomfortable things.
What my mentor taught me was to be equal with the men I'm seeing. I'm not trading favors with them, I'm having fun with them for an hour or two.
Demanding that they pay for the whole room or buy me gifts turns me into a prostitute, takes away my power, and makes me less than them.
It was solid advice and it worked out for me.